Friday, 9 February 2018

PARENTING

Parenting
By group 4;
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               Good parenting helps foster empathy, honesty, kindness, coorperation and cheerfulness. It also promotes intellectual curiosity, motivation and desire to achieve. It helps protect children from developing anxiety, depression, eating disorders, anti-social behavior and alcohol and drug abuse. "Parenting is one of the most researched areas in the entire field of social science" says Steinberg. Too many parents base their actions on gut  reactions. But some parents have better instincts than others. Children should never be hit, not even a slap on toddler's bottom.

               Many people use the same tactics their own parents used and a lot of times that meant using really harsh discipline. A parents relationship with his or her child will be reflected in the child's actions including child behavior problems. Which parents do not love their children? After all, what is the goal when you're dealing with children? There is the ways of good parenting.

1. Make Time For Kids.
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                It's often difficult for parents and kids to get together for a family meal, let alone spend quality time together. But, there is probably nothing kids would like more. For example, get up 10 minutes earlier in the morning, eat breakfast with your child or leave the dishes in the sink and take a walk after dinner. Kids who aren't getting the attention they want from their parents often act out or misbehave because they're sure to be noticed that way.

               Many parents find it rewarding to schedule together time with their kids. Create a " special night" each week to be together and let your kids help decide how to spend the time. Look for other ways to connect, put a note or something special in your kid's lunchbox. Adolescents seem to need less undivided attention from their parents than younger kids. Because there are fewer windows of opportunity for parents and teens to get together, parents should do their best to be available when their teen does express a desire to talk or participate in family activities. Attending concerts, games and other events with teen communications caring and lets you get to know more about your child and his or her friends in important ways.

               Don't feel guilty if you're a working parent. It is the many little things you do such as making popcorn, playing cards, window shopping than that kids will remember.

2. Loving Parents
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               As a parents we need to show them our love. This is no such thing as loving our child too much. Loving them are cannot spoiling them. Only what you choose to do or give them in the name of love such a things like material indulgence, low expectations and over protection. When these things are given in place of real love, that's when you will have a spoiling child.

               Loving our child can be as simple as giving them hugs, spending time with them and listening to their issues seriously. Showing these acts of love can trigger the release of feel good hormones such as oxytocin, opiods and prolactin. These neurochemicals can bring us a deep sence of calm, emotional warmth and contentment, from these the child will develop resilience and not to mention a closer relationship with us.

3. Positive Parenting
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               Babies are born with around 100bilion cells (neurons) with relatively little connections. These connections create our thoughts, drive our actions, shape our personalities and basically determine who we are. They are created, strengthened and "sculpted" through experiences positive experiences themselves and offer them to others. Give your child negatives experiences. They won't have the kind of development necessary for them to thrive. Sing that silly song. Have a tickle marathon, go to the park. Laugh with your child. Ride through an emotional tantrum. Solve a problem together with a positive attitude.

              Not only do these positive experiences create good connections in your child's brain, but they also from the memories of you that your child carries for live. When it comes to discipline, it seems hard to remain positive. But it is possible to practise Positive Discipline and avoid punitive measures. Being a good parents means you need to teach your child the moral in what is right and what is wrong. Setting limits and being consistent are the keys to good discipline. Be kind and firm when enforcing those rules. Focus on the reason behind the child's behavior. And make it and opportunity to learn for the future, rather than to punish for the past.

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               Based on the discussions above, I can conclude that parents play an important role in the development of the character of the children. Parents need to realise their responsibility to educate children into a noble person. Each family member should equip themselves with parenting knowledge. This is important because the formation of the character of children should start with family itself. Parents will be the role model for children. Strictly speaking, the household is a fire tile garden to produce noble and virtuous people. If you have a good relationship and you're really in tune with your child, that's what really matters. Then none of this will be an issue. Thank you & Assalamualaikum!
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5 comments:

  1. Haziq Bahari11 February 2018 at 19:47

    Good day Group 4.

    I would say that my days as a child was at normal level where I could say that my parents were rather strict.

    Are your parents strict? What is your opinion on strict parenting? Do you agree with it? If yes, provide reasons. If no, share your thoughts. (reply in the comment section)

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    1. Unknown15 February 2018 at 07:10

      Hye assalamualaikum and good evening sir. I'm Nadiathul Kamaliah Binti Zin Azman. Thank you for your comment and I hope you are in a good condition, sir :D

      I know that when a sir in childhood is really fun if you want to compare with childhood in the era of digital technology. Right? Yes. My mom is a very firm and I strongly agreed that parents are now strict to their children for good. Therefore, parents want their children to be a responsible person and not trapped by social problems that can affect the minds of children. In addition, in the firmness of the parents it is also possible to apply pure values ​​so that children become examples of future generations where they must learn no matter what and can give the best to learn from scratch as it evolves freely which can cause breakage. Instead, emphasizing the importance of religion by applying those values ​​from home so when out of the kids can distinguish what is good and what is bad.

      My father died 12 years ago. So my mom takes care of us only 3 siblings. Throughout my mother taking care us, my mother is very firmness. Educate and take care of us with lovingly and responsibly. We know that in the firmness of a mother there is a tenderness. In conclusion, parents now need to balance the way they educate children more positively even if there are some who disagree with them. I have done answered your question, I hope you agreed my opinion on strict parenting. Thanks sir and happy holiday!

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    2. Unknown19 February 2018 at 22:07

      I agree with the strict parenting method. Being a strict parent is good for children, as long as it is done with a little love and affection. Strict parents might being meanies, but strict parenting does have some advantages. Effective parenting involves setting limits and teaching kids to deal with the consequences from their actions.
      Strict parents might push their children to be successful in academic. They believe their children can do better, and want them to meet their standards. Children of strict parents often do achieve academic success because they learn self-discipline, therefore they study more, pay attention and get better grades.
      The strict disciplinarian style of parenting teaches kids that they must cope with the consequences of their behavior. The children learn values and the ability to make healthy decisions. Strict parents push their children to be better, so they develop confidence in themselves and their abilities.
      Strict parents tend to raise independent children. These kids learn to think for themselves, compromise and solve their own problems. Strict parents often require their children to get jobs when they are old enough and save their money. They learn the value of money and the importance of earning it at a young age, which can help them be financially successful later in life.
      - by Siti Aminah Binti Sa'im

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    3. Unknown20 February 2018 at 06:05

      Hi sir,I am Thenmolli d/p Pasupathi.In my point of view I agree with the strict parenting is good way.Strict parents might have reputation or being meanies,but strict parenting does have some advantages.Effective parenting involves setting limits and teaching kids to deal with the consequences that result from their actions.Strict parents set high standards for their children and reinforce the importance meeting those expectations.Strict authoritative parents might push their children to be successful in academic or other pursuits.Children of strict parents often
      to achieve academic success because they
      study more,pay attention and get better grades.Strict parents push their children
      to be better,so they develop confidence in themselves and their abilities.Strict
      parents are consistent with discipline,and children learn at young age that consequences exist for in appropriate behavior.The self-control they learn as children is typical Carried into adulthood.Strict parents often require their children to get job and save their money.They learn the value of money and the importance of saving it at
      a young age,which can help them be financially successful later in life.So the strict parenting too make children to achieve their future goals.

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    4. Unknown22 February 2018 at 23:49

      Hi,Assalammualaikum w.b.t and good evening sir. I'm Siti Nur Rashida Binti Abdul Rashid. Thank you for your comment and i hope you still in good condition. yes ,i agree with a strict family,which is By setting the bar for your expectations high, your child knows what's acceptable and what isn't in your eyes. When you raise your child with strict expectations, you can expect to see a greater degree of discipline. Not only does this discipline affect your child interacts with you, but it might also extend to the way he approaches school work, spending time with friends and eventually even apply that discipline to a career. If you have high expectations for your child, a strict method helps spell out those expectations to get results.

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